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Everybody Deserves Tailored Care At South Pacific Private we understand the many ways in which sexuality and gender can impact the mental health and experiences of trauma and addiction for

  For most people, sex addiction is not actually driven by sexual desire but by issues related to intimacy, the need to numb emotional pain, assert control, avoid emotional connection,

We believe change is possibleImpulsivity is one of the key behavioural issues most closely associated with addiction, with a range of impulsive control disorders commonly co-occurring alongside addiction. The inability

At South Pacific Private we understand that trauma, addiction and mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety don’t just affect the person, but the network of family and friends.

The impact of domestic and family violenceThose of us who have experienced domestic violence know the life-changing impacts it can have on us and our families. These impacts can extend

Instances of trauma may range in severity, from cases of divorce or parents playing favourites on one end, to cases of child abuse, sexual abuse or parents struggling with addiction on the other.

Quality of care is essential in helping our LGBTQIA+ community and families find appropriate treatment.

Survivors of sexual abuse can often struggle with internalised shame and blame themselves for the trauma, an unhealthy coping mechanism that can hamper healing and recovery.

When we’re trapped in the cycle of addiction, it can be difficult to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Disclosing trauma is a demonstration of trust and vulnerability, but knowing how to respond can be challenging. Here’s what to say, and what not to.

Any of us who’ve been to rehab or a Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting will recognise the messages delivered to us on Valentine’s Day as extremely unhelpful – here’s our advice on getting through it.

Primary Therapist at South Pacific Private Luke Jesionkowski answers seven key questions about love addiction, from both his professional and personal experience.

The experts at South Pacific Private share their experience of raising the issue of addiction or mental health treatment with a loved one – who may or may not want to hear it.

Depression can sometimes be confused with regular feelings of sadness and unhappiness, and that misunderstanding can be a problem.

Fear, shame and anxiety can be debilitating roadblocks that stop us from reaching out for help, working on recovery or attending rehab – here’s how to shift your thinking.